Being AnD NoThinGneSs

"The lover and the loved will exist much like the vacillation between the parts of the self.
Only one can exist as subject and so the other has lost its transcendence but inevitably will cause the other to lose his transcendence when the other, seeking love by loving, causes himself to appear as object for the self. 
Neither lover can know the other as subject. 
Consciousness cannot be known because it is surrounded by nothingness.
 Love must fail because of the nature of human existence. 
Sadly, it is this same nature that will always cause the self to seek this love. 

Love would be love when it leaves desire for identity behind and instead seeks only to love the whole.  Love will cease to be love when it objectifies or limits anyone.  

Love should be what seeks the good of the whole.  

Love should be the embracing of the freedom of the self and of others.  

Then it will be both responsible and non-judgmental. 

  

Though the problem of the in-itself still remains, it will not remain forever."